How can people be so blind... or deaf?

I miss her so much, I wanna be with her tonight..
+Do you love me, dear?
- Of course I do, why ask that silly question?

You low-life-filthy s.o.b., I know what you have been doing with all that money. Don't tell me crap about hardwork!
+So, how is your job today? Busy doing task from me?
-Yes bos, no problem. Everything is in good track.

Just be careful, don't you even think of turning your bare back!
+Let's hope that our cooperation can be of beneficial for both of our company.
- Indeed, I am very lucky to have you as my partner.

I tried very hard to open my heart and look inside. Still, I am as deaf and blind as everybody else. Should I be a mind reader, know what people think about me and be alert or be afraid all the time? OR should I just be thankful to my dear life that I can be more relax knowing that "nothing" is wrong.