revelation, again

It is shocking to realize how fact that we "listen" from someone brings unexpected reaction in ourselves. One lives in his/her factual context, yet those facts are ones that he/she "creates and believes". Those facts (that one creates and so believes) are easier to understand, lighter to bear, and much more simpler than "actual facts". Why, because the person, as a sole owner of those facts, has absolute prerogative to smoothen rough edges.

Once someone else, owner of other version of those facts, reveal the facts (that the person believe) to us, thus come the explosion.
An asshole, that is one of the facts.